It’s all pretty if you think of it, the world welcomes you, your first few years you are so innocent and pure then suddenly you are thrown into the big world.
With thousand of other souls around you and things aren’t so easy anymore. All these different things are introduced to you, the way you should live your life, get a cute boy, engaged, maybe the baby before marriage, all depends on you. Who knows?
That is the way it should be right?
I had my life planned out exactly that way, I even made a list with baby names 👶🏼
Unfortunately, you never know what’s going to happen and my roadmap suddenly took a sharp left turn instead of right and I were thrown off completely. I weren’t looking for a cute boy and marriage anymore… I were looking for that one girl that caught my eye 👁 that gave me that fun feeling, caring, love, a reason for a better life a better me a true me.
It was fun in the beginning until it became serious and the stories started running through my head, what will I tell my family? Friends? Suddenly I weren’t attracted to the D anymore but the V … Will they judge me?
I chose to keep it a secret, but after a while coming out was easier and caring that secret, that true you around, I chose to be me, I chose living a life that was me and I’m surely having a good time!
I fell in love a lot, I were judged a lot, it’s still hard sometimes but I couldn’t be happier staying true to myself, and also I would’ve been quite miserable missing out on all the cute girls out there!The Lesbian community has grown so much, even the ones who judged you are in relationships with the same sex. Not everyone will have a open mindset and not everyone will approve of your choices or support them, but lucky for you, you got LALASHENZHEN. We got your back, go be you, go live your life to the fullest, go get silly drunk and meet the cute girls, go home with them to drink coffee I mean, but tell us all about it! Life may not always go as you want it to but always be proud of who you are!
Welcome and thank you for staying true to yourself ☝🏻🏳️🌈